I fell into running myself as a business, the same way I fell into my career, my degree and many other things in my life. This year has been one of the first I have actually planned things and carried them out. I’m 38, heck, it’s a good time to start growing up.
It starts like this. Having a drink with my friend Josie when she says: “I’m doing a Performing Arts degree, it’s brilliant.” I am working every hour I can; in a flower ‘factory’ picking stems for bunches, waitressing in a busy restaurant and babysitting in my free evenings. Ah well, I always loved acting… “How do I apply?”.
Three years later I have a First Class degree in Performing Arts and a dissertation admired by the top staff at the university, which I pigeonhole in my brain as ‘something to expand later’. There are no jobs. Unless I want to go to London. Which I do not.
I meet, in a pub, a like-minded actor / director and he, I and another madman start a touring theatre company. We suffer the slings and arrows of arts-funding application forms and performing to three people. We also ‘do’ the Edinburgh Festival with an adaptation of King Lear. It’s brilliant and exhausting and my then-boyfriend was ridiculously unsupportive. So, I foolishly gave it up.
Just before I gave it up, one of our actors mentioned their daughter’s school’s Drama teacher had gone off on Long Term ‘Sick’. I agreed to do a few workshops. I became an Instructor, started a Graduate Training Programme, then I was a Teacher! Me! It seemed to happen so quickly I hardly knew what was happening. I had a proper job, regular times, classes, holidays, work colleagues I adored and students with whom I was thrilled to work. They were a tough crowd sometimes but I relished the challenge. I didn’t always win, but I loved the chance to fight to win.
I dumped my unsupportive boyfriend and enjoyed single life for a while. My theatre buddy and his fiancée invited me to go away for Christmas and we had the best Christmas I’d had for years. Full of laughter. The day I got back, I mixed up a large cocktail and prepared for an evening of TV. My friend Bekka called. “There’s a house party tonight, it’s going to be brilliant.” I am so pleased I poured that cocktail away and went, for there I met my new boyfriend, who became my fiancé, then my husband, then the father of my two children.
Meanwhile, I had moved jobs, twice, and moved house. The children arriving were incredible but I had no idea how I was going to teach and have children.
I found a school that would employee me for two days a week and I found a childminder perfect to look after my children. But I was unhappy in work. I didn’t like the students at the school, I found working part-time meant it was impossible to make friends with the staff, I became disillusioned with working in education and as our school became an academy I became even more unhappy. I needed out.
I spoke to my friend Welly. “You should do tutoring for 11+ exams”. I looked into it. It was lucrative, it could be done in the evenings, I would be helping one child at a time and I would be really, properly teaching. I loved the idea.
I spent hours researching, planning then I advertised. I waited. I got a student! I threw myself into it and LOVED it!
As time went on I thought about other topics I could tutor. I added English, then Drama, then I stumbled across Elocution. I thought about it, I researched it, I added it to my repertoire. I developed lessons as I gained students, I learned from my students, they learned from me. I began to gain a reputation, a good one. People wanted me to teach them, to teach their children. I was flattered and a little scared, but I loved it. I taught 5 year olds, 65 year olds, people from every continent in the world, from all walks of life. They wanted to be understood and I knew how to help them speak more clearly. I knew I knew. It was amazing.
Then my luck really, really turned. I was interviewed by a journalist writing an article on the rise of Elocution in tuition. I spoke at length about my passion for the topic and how I’d created my lessons from scratch. I pointed him in the direction of one of my students who spoke to him about how we both sit down at our computers, sixty miles apart and have Elocution lessons via Skype.
The article made The Independent and The Daily Mail. The Independent article was enormous, had a mention on the front page and a double page spread. There was a lovely picture of my student and I was the major focus of the article. I couldn’t believe it. The enquiries flooded in!
Now I only work for myself. I call myself Midwinter Tuition and took on a friend to tutor students in French, expanding my subjects even more. I studied Teaching English as A Foreign Language to continue the expansion. My podcast has over 150K downloads and my website has had over 15K hits. I worked hard, tutoring every night and one daytime a week, it was tiring but so worthwhile.
Once both children were in school I started teaching more daytime lessons, coming home from the school run to plug into Skype, only signing off just before the school run, every day. Evening lessons are becoming harder and harder as the kids’ bedtimes are already stretching towards my teaching time, plus clubs and activities have to take priority.
I am proud to be going solo now, free from the constraints of the education system. It feels amazing. I admire all the teachers still working their backsides off in school, but it’s not for me. I love the independence of working alone, but still reaching out into so many people’s lives through tuition. Long may it continue!